What I offer
I don’t just list services — I create unforgettable BDSM and fetish experiences in London and Southend-on-Sea for individuals, couples, and every gender. Each session is designed around your desires and limits, then brought to life with my own wicked creativity and firm, hands-on dominance.
Below you’ll find some of my favourite ways to play — detailed passions I love to explore again and again, along with many other kinks that I’m always delighted to deliver.
Pegging & Anal Play
Pegging is one of my true specialties — a deeply intimate, intense form of domination. The ultimate act of power exchange.
With expert precision, and years of gym training for hip, leg, and glute strength, I built my body to move with gusto. I use strap-ons and toys of varying size and shape to explore and stimulate the body in ways few have ever experienced. Every movement is guided by anatomy and by my own instinct.
The prostate, often called the male G-spot, holds extraordinary potential for pleasure. When teased and stimulated, it can create full-body waves of sensation — sometimes leading to powerful, hands-free prostate orgasms and what many describe as “assgasms.”
Whether we start slow with deliberate penetration or build up to hard deep pulsing strokes, I will control the pace and depth, as I control your mind and body. I will always use appropriate toys, lubrication, and methods hand-picked for you to heighten your anal experience and make it pleasurable.
Fisting / Extreme Anal Play / Large Toys
From using my hands and feet to oversized dildos and inflatable plugs, I love testing endurance and stretching limits. My collection ranges from 2 inches to a jaw-dropping 22, with matching harnesses ready if you crave an extra-large pegging to match my hip game.
I take my time with this kind of play — warming you up slowly, teasing the anal sphincter with fingers, toys, and deep, deliberate pressure until your body relaxes and opens. I might start with smaller toys, gentle twists, and steady breathing before moving to the next size, or focus on long, patient stretches that make every inch feel both intense and irresistible.
Whether I’m pegging with power or using my hands and often other body parts to work you open, the goal is the same: a deep, filling experience that leaves you feeling open and well used so you can still feel me for days after… I also have a party trick which will turn you into a super soaker.
Edging
Edging is all about taking you right to the brink and then stopping… again and again. I love watching every tiny reaction as I build you up until you’re seconds from release — and then pulling back, making you start all over. With my exotic dancer background I can assure you that when it comes to teasing you will be pushed to the limit.
The more I tease, the more sensitive you get. Every touch starts to feel electric, every breath sharper. You’ll start to lose track of time, caught between wanting it to end and never wanting it to stop.
Sometimes I’ll mix in bondage, a blindfold, a little breath play or whispered instructions to turn the pressure up even more. Whether I finally allow that release or keep you in delicious denial is entirely my choice — and that’s half the fun.
CBT / Ballbusting
I love taking control of your cock and balls — and I don’t hold back. My kicks are hard, sharp, and perfectly aimed, whether I’m wearing boots, heels, or barefoot. You’ll feel the power of my legs with every strike and know I’m enjoying every second.
CBT with me isn’t just about kicks (though I do love them). I’ll mix in squeezes, slaps, clamps, and toys: humblers, ball crushers, heavy ball weights, and other CBT devices that keep you right where I want you. Sometimes I’ll build the tension slowly with steady pressure; other times I’ll shock you with sudden, hard impact until you’re breathless and shaking — all pre-agreed, of course!
It’s intense, physical, and completely under my control — a perfect blend of pain and pleasure delivered with strength, skill, and a wicked smile.
Cum Eating Instructions (CEI)
CEI is about giving me complete control of the finish. I decide when you come, and I decide what happens next.
You’ll gather every drop just how I tell you, taste it, and swallow while I watch.
I might draw it out with teasing and edging until you can’t control yourself, or keep you waiting until the only thing on your mind is my next command.
It’s intimate, filthy, and the perfect act of humiliation to bring our session to a close.
Orgasm Control / Denial
Orgasm control is where I take charge of every second of your release — or keep it completely out of reach.
Sometimes I’ll tease you right to the edge and let you fall; other times I’ll keep you begging while I decide if, or when, you get to finish at all.
It’s a slow, delicious build. Every time I pull you back your body gets more sensitive, every sound and touch feels sharper. Soon you’ll be shaking, not knowing if the next breath will bring relief or another round of aching denial.
I might mix in edging, restraints, whispered orders, or toys to keep the tension high and your mind spinning. Whether I finally allow that release or leave you throbbing and undone is always my call — and that’s the part that makes it so addictive.
Impact Play & Corporal Punishment
Corporal punishment is where precision meets pure anticipation.
From the first warm-up strokes to the final sting of the cane, I build every scene with care — teasing your senses until each strike feels inevitable. I love watching skin react: the slow bloom of colour under a flogger, the sharp red lines of a cane, or the deep, satisfying thud of a paddle.
Not everyone wants lasting marks, and that’s where my skill comes in.
I can work the surface to give you the rush of impact without a single trace, or go deeper and leave beautiful stripes and bruises you’ll admire for days. I know how to read the skin, how to pace the blows, and when to pause so every touch lands exactly as I intend.
My tools are as varied as my style: bamboo and acrylic canes for clean, well-placed strikes; heavy floggers for deep thuds; leather paddles and whips for everything from soft slices to sharp, punishing snaps. Sometimes I start with a gentle hand spanking to warm the skin and nerves, building gradually until the tension peaks and every hit sends shivers down your spine.
Clothed Facesitting / Smothering
There’s something delicious about keeping all my clothes on while taking every breath from you. Clothed facesitting is pure power play — the weight of my perfect, round bottom, the scent of fabric, the heat of skin just out of reach.
I love the feeling of you pinned beneath me, struggling for air as I decide when you breathe and when you don’t. Sometimes I’ll move slowly, teasing you with the curve of my hips and the press of my thighs; other times I’ll sit firm and unyielding, making you feel the full strength of my body.
Breath Play
Breath play is all about trust, timing, and that delicious rush of surrender. I love the power of holding you right on the edge — every inhale and exhale under my control — until the air itself becomes part of the game.
Sometimes it’s a gentle hand over your mouth, or my bottom perched down on your face. Other times it’s the thrill of a hood, a bag, or well-placed rope that leaves you focused only on my voice and the next breath I allow.
Feminisation / Sissy Training
Allow me to transform you into the perfect, pretty little thing.
I can do your make-up, or teach you how; shave your entire body; pluck your brows; or give you a full makeover. I’ll style your wigs (I trained as a hair stylist) and offer hair-care advice.
I’m equally happy to take you shopping and choose outfits that flatter your new look. Prepare to be turned into my perfect feminine pet for my entertainment — I’ll teach you how to walk, pose and serve, and introduce playful chores, tasks and grooming rituals to turn you into the best version of your newfound feminine self.
Humiliation & SPH (Small Penis Humiliation)
Humiliation is one of my favourite ways to get inside your head.
I love making you feel small, exposed, and completely under my control — and watching you crave more of it. It can be sharp words, mocking laughs, or tasks that leave you blushing. From small penis humiliation to verbal degradation and playful teasing, I know how to hit exactly where it stings and excites the most.
Humiliation can stand alone or run through everything else we do: a taunt with every strike, an order that makes you hesitate, a laugh that stays with you long after I’m done.
It’s the perfect mix of mental domination and desire — my words becoming the marks you carry home.
Interrogation & Interrogation Roleplay
Dark, manipulative mind games. Do you want to be psychologically broken?
Do you crave someone who will find your weak spots, press them, and use them against you until you unravel?
Perhaps you did something you shouldn’t have and deserve to be brought low — made to confess, to beg, to finally come clean.
I will interrogate you with cold questions, long silences, and the kind of attention that makes the truth slip out.
I will make you fear me, and you will confess.
This is psychological dominance at its finest: intimate, inevitable. Full aftercare is provided and included in session rates.
Roleplay
I don’t just dress up — I become the character.
Every role is performed with conviction and full commitment: I’ll slip into costume, inhabit the persona, and sculpt the scene around your fantasies until it feels real.
From strict headmistress or schoolgirl bully to arresting officer, expect drama, emotion, and flawless performance.
I love the theatre of it — the pacing, the tension, the reveal. It all excites me.
Tie & Tease
Tie & Tease is pure sensual domination — simple, intimate, and utterly addictive.
Perfect for first-timers who want a slow, erotic introduction to BDSM and just as irresistible for experienced subs who crave deep, teasing control.
I’m a naturally tactile Domme.
I love the slide of rope over bare skin, the slow tightening of cuffs, the scrape of nails, and the warm brush of my breath against your neck. Once you’re bound and helpless, I’ll linger, explore, and take my time. My hands being my biggest tool.
Every sigh and shiver feeds my pleasure as I keep you on the edge, knowing exactly how far to push before you surrender.
Forced Bi (bulls available; extra charge)
My obsession with turning boys gay runs deep — nothing makes me wetter.
I love coaxing you past fantasy and into real bisexual submission, guiding you as curiosity melts into need while I stay fully in control.
Before we meet, we’ll agree on the fantasies you crave, then I’ll handpick the bull with the perfect experience for every scenario — from slow, sensual first encounters to hard, fast full-body surrender.
I’ll watch, direct, and whisper every command as a man takes you for my viewing pleasure, using you exactly how I want.
The shock of discovery, the taste of a first gay experience, and the sight of you surrendering completely to a man will be sooo arousing for me.
Watersports
Watersports is one of the most intimate power games I play.
I’m always well hydrated and I produce large quantities of golden nectar to drench you, and sometimes get even more creative with it. Every drop is mine to give and you’re there to take it.
I produce a lot, and I like to think of it as my own home-brand champagne.
Sometimes I’ll make you wait for your treat below me.
Other times I’ll let it flow without warning, warm and unstoppable, running exactly where I want it.
I can control the flow, or drown you in it — all depending on my mood and how well you’ve pleased me.
A Few More
Here’s a few more fetishes I enjoy partaking in during sessions.
There are so many I can’t detail every single one. My tastes are varied and this list isn’t exhaustive — my mind remains open.
If it’s not on here, and it’s not specified I don’t offer it, please do ask.
Hard Limits — Not Offered
Requests for anything below will result in an immediate session decline.
I state my limits clearly. If not respected, then power exchange will not be taking place.
Miss HB is always a delight to see, great communication prior to meeting, lovely warm manner when I arrived and a firm but fun playtime tied up, edged and delighted when I was allowed to release, well worth the many repeat visits - A